Communication & Disability Etiquette

Practical guidance for interacting respectfully and effectively with people who have disabilities.

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Owner: Accessibility PMO · Last reviewed: 2026-01-05

Guiding Principles

The core principle is simple:treat people with disabilities with the same respect and consideration you give everyone else. These guidelines help you put that principle into practice.

Person-First vs. Identity-First Language

Some people prefer "person with a disability" (person-first), while others prefer "disabled person" (identity-first). When in doubt, follow the individual's lead or ask their preference. Both approaches are valid—what matters is respect.

General Communication Guidelines

Blind or Low Vision

Do

  • Identify yourself when you approach: "Hi, this is Alex from IT."
  • Be descriptive with directions: "The coffee is about three feet to your left."
  • Describe visual information verbally during presentations.
  • Read aloud any text you're showing or distributing.
  • When guiding, offer your elbow rather than grabbing their arm.
  • Tell the person when you're leaving the conversation.
  • Describe the content of charts, graphs, and images.

Don't

  • Say "over there" or point without verbal description.
  • Grab or push the person to guide them.
  • Pet or distract a guide dog.
  • Move items without telling them.
  • Assume they can't see anything—"low vision" means some usable vision.
  • Leave without saying goodbye.

Deaf or Hard of Hearing

Do

  • Face the person when speaking so they can see your lips.
  • Speak clearly at a normal volume. Speak louder only if requested.
  • Repeat questions from audience members before answering.
  • Use paper/pencil or type on your phone if needed for clarity.
  • When using an interpreter, speak directly to the deaf person, not the interpreter.
  • Look at the person who is deaf, even when the interpreter is voicing.
  • Get the person's attention with a gentle wave or tap on the shoulder.

Don't

  • Cover your mouth while speaking.
  • Chew gum or eat while talking.
  • Turn away mid-sentence.
  • Shout (it distorts lip movements).
  • Assume all deaf people can lip-read or sign.
  • Talk to the interpreter instead of the deaf person.

Mobility Impairments

Do

  • Sit down for long conversations with wheelchair users to maintain eye level.
  • Ensure meeting spaces are physically accessible.
  • Respect personal space—the wheelchair is part of it.
  • Ask before moving items that may be needed for mobility.
  • Offer to carry items if it seems helpful, but wait for acceptance.

Don't

  • Lean on or touch someone's wheelchair.
  • Push the wheelchair without asking.
  • Move mobility aids out of reach.
  • Assume the person can't participate in activities.
  • Talk to a companion instead of the person.

Speech Impairments

Do

  • Listen carefully and patiently.
  • Repeat what you think you understood, then ask for clarification.
  • Ask short questions that require short answers if needed.
  • Allow extra time without showing impatience.
  • Consider written communication as an alternative.

Don't

  • Finish sentences for the person.
  • Pretend to understand when you don't.
  • Rush the conversation.
  • Talk to someone else as if the person isn't there.

Cognitive & Learning Disabilities

Do

  • Offer directions or instructions both orally and in writing.
  • Read instructions aloud if asked.
  • Use plain language and avoid jargon.
  • Break complex information into smaller steps.
  • Allow extra processing time.
  • Provide written summaries of important conversations.
  • Be patient if information needs to be repeated.

Don't

  • Assume the person can't understand complex topics.
  • Use condescending language or tone.
  • Rush through explanations.
  • Make assumptions about intelligence.

Psychiatric Impairments

Do

  • Provide information in clear, calm, respectful tones.
  • Allow opportunities for questions.
  • Be patient and flexible.
  • Respect confidentiality.
  • Focus on the person's abilities, not limitations.
  • Offer breaks during long meetings if helpful.

Don't

  • Make assumptions about behavior or capabilities.
  • Use stigmatizing language ("crazy," "insane").
  • Discuss the person's condition with others.
  • Take unpredictable behavior personally.

Tips for Presenting & Teaching

When delivering presentations, hosting events, or teaching classes:

Before the Event

During the Presentation

Materials

Common Access Solutions by Disability

The following examples illustrate typical accommodations, though individual needs vary. Always discuss specific needs with the person.

Low Vision
  • Seating near the front of class or meeting room
  • Large print handouts, signs, and equipment labels
  • Monitor connected to microscope or lab equipment to enlarge images
  • Materials available in accessible electronic format
  • Screen magnification software
Blindness
  • Course materials in braille or accessible electronic format
  • Verbal descriptions of visual aids, charts, graphs, images
  • Raised-line drawings and tactile models of graphic materials
  • Braille equipment labels, auditory lab warning signals
  • Adaptive lab equipment (talking thermometers, calculators, light probes)
  • Computer with optical character recognition, screen reader, braille display
Hearing Impairment
  • Sign language interpreter or real-time captioning (CART)
  • FM system or hearing loop
  • Note-taker
  • Written instructions, lab manuals, summaries
  • Use of email for discussions
  • Visual warning systems for emergencies
Learning Disability
  • Note-taker and/or recorded class sessions
  • Captioned films and videos
  • Extended time on exams, alternative testing arrangements
  • Visual, aural, and tactile instructional demonstrations
  • Computer with voice output, spellchecker, grammar checker
  • Reading software for digital texts
Mobility Impairment
  • Note-taker, lab assistant, group lab assignments
  • Classrooms, labs, and field trips in accessible locations
  • Adjustable tables, lab equipment within reach
  • Materials available in electronic format
  • Computer with alternative input device (voice, alternative keyboard)
Health Impairment
  • Note-takers for missed classes
  • Flexible attendance policies when possible
  • Extended time on exams
  • Materials in electronic format
  • Email communication for updates during absences

Sources & Attribution

This guidance is adapted from leading resources on disability etiquette and inclusive communication.

Primary Sources

Permission Statement

Content adapted from University of Washington DO-IT publications. "Permission is granted to copy these materials for educational, noncommercial purposes provided the source is acknowledged." — UW DO-IT

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